Dear Cooper,
August. Our busy month. We had Uncle James and his family stay with us this past weekend (post to come) and that is only the beginning of our month. July we spent staying around home with no guests and taking it easy, well all that is about to change this month! Although July was slow on the visiting front it was not slow in your world. It amazes me each and every day how much you change on an almost daily basis. I just want to wrap you up and keep you little forever. But alas, you keep growing and will graduate before I know it! Here is the good, the bad, and the ugly (there actually isn't any ugly) for your 9th month:
- First let's start with the not so good. You are suffering from a sever case of separation anxiety. If you see me leave the room you cry, if you hear my voice in another room you cry, when you see me coming back you cry. It started essentially the week after you turned 8 months which is apparently the normal age for this to happen. You seem to be better when we are at home but in the evening when you are tired you only want your Mom. Don't get me wrong, I love that you want me... BUT every momma needs a little 'me time' and you are making it difficult! I feel guilty when I leave knowing that your Dad is going to have a rough time getting you to sleep and will have to deal with your crying on and off while I am gone. I really hope this phase passes quickly but the bad news is it could be months....
-What is the good you ask? You have stared crawling on July 26! It is an army crawl where you use your right foot, and your right foot only, to propel yourself along the floor on your belly. It is surprising how fast you an move when you want to. You may wonder what made you move for the first time.
A pen. Yes, a pen. For Grady it was the lap top. It was just as exciting as it was with your brother to see you get to where you wanted to go all on your own. You play (and always have) happily on our toy covered floor. The difference is now you can move from toy to toy to toy. It won't be long before your are crawling on all 4s and getting around quicker than we can imagine! It made for an interesting photo shoot!
-On Aug 2 you pulled yourself up to a wobbly standing position. I guess when you decided to move, it was really time to move! You have only done it twice thus far and only Grady and Aunty Blaire (over skype) have witnessed it.
-You have, on occasion, gone from on your tummy to sitting. Not often yet....
-You are a great eater. I tried some Baby Led Weaning with you which means I give you very few purees and instead give you sticks of 'real' food. So far it has been great. Yes you choke or gag every so often, but overall you have done great. I just want you on table food ASAP so I don't have to make 3 meals. Yes three - one for Dad and I, one for you, and one for your brother (the pickiest eater ever).
-Your favorite foods at the moment are broccoli, chicken, grilled cheese, prune (yes prune), and blackberries to name a few. I have been pushing the fruits and veggies like you wouldn't believe just to increase the odds I get one good eater out of my boys. You now practically refuse to eat out of a spoon because most of you food is just thrown on the tray. Fine by me. It also takes you close to 30 minutes to power through all the food giving me lots of time to prepare everything, eat, and sometimes clean up as well!
-Your rash from last month went away after 3 weeks, took a week break, and it is back again. You must have sensitive skin like your Dad. I hope it has something to do with the heat as the week you were rash-less you spent little time outside. Grady and I try to play outside during nap time so you don't have to be out in the sun.
-You and Grady fight over toys often. After I said it was so cute last month when you had your first fight... not so cute anymore. Grady seems to want to play with every toy you do an dquickly swipes it away. I try to persuade him to give it back or replace it since at this point you really don't care what toy you play with as long as you have one. I can forsee that it is going to get much much worse before it gets better....
-You started your 9th month getting up once a night and ending it all over the map. There were some nights your were up a lot and others only once. I would like to say it is usually once but that may be optomistic. Shortly after you popped your first tooth you started getting up at least 2 times per night. I blamed it all on teething. Your mood was terrible, your sleeping was terrible. It must be teething. After over 2 weeks of changes I thought maybe it was an ear infection. I took you to the walk in clinic. It wasn't. Maybe it was teething? Maybe it was the 8 month sleep regression? What ever it was I hope it is over soon. It has been few rough few weeks on this very tired Momma.
-You have become harder to put asleep. Ever since that day last month where you refused to take a morning nap you fight sleep. From the time I turn the lights out in your room after stories you cry. You anticipate nap/bed time and you let us know it. Sometimes the crying is short lived, sometimes not. You are just not a cuddler. Even when we pick you up you do not stop crying. I guess you just have to release the tension before you can sleep. It makes me sad to hear you cry.
-You generally nap 2 times a day. Ideally you sleep an hour in the morning about 9am and 2 hours in the afternoon about 2pm. Sometimes we have to wake you up as you really like to nap and could nap for hours some days. Other days it is 45 minutes. And other days you decide morning naps are optional all together. 5 times this week you just flat our refused to go to sleep so you only napped once. Despite the lack of sleep you were still pretty good humored and stayed up until 7pm no problem. You just seem a little to young to give up that morning nap just yet! If I remember right there was a week around 10 months that Grady went to one nap and then just like that switched back to 2. You just seem to young to only nap once a day.
-According to the doctor, you weigh 22 pounds, 13 ounces and are 27.5 inches long as of August 9th
-Nicknames we still call you: Cooper dooper, Tooper, Coop
-You have 2 teeth (second tooth popped through July 29 and led to a few sleepless nights....)
-You drink 3 - 6oz bottles during the day and 1 bottle at night. Knock on wood.
-You wear a size 4 diaper in the day and a size 5 diaper at night.
-You wear 6-12 months or 12-18 months in clothes.
I am just so proud of you for starting to crawl this month. After all, you do have a lot of weight to drag around. You just seem so much more independent. This also means keeping a closer eye on you :) This is just my favorite time... watching you learn new things. We still have standing, furniture walking, and independent walking to look forward to in the next few months. I am so excited to see you explore the world and become your own little person.
Love,
Mommy