Friday, February 27, 2015

Five on Friday

1. While I aim to blog 3 days a week. I must have had a boring week as I just had nothing to say. Or maybe it was so busy that I didn't have time. One or the other.

2. I saw 50 Shades of Grey this week and I liked it. The reviews weren't good but I don't care. I read lots of people thought the acting was bad but I thought they did fine. Ana is awkward, she was in the book to. Grey is very serious and I thought he played the role well. People need to stop analyzing the movie and take the time to enjoy it for what it is, a romantic soft port. Ha! 

3. I've already started booking summer camps. Can you beleive it. Since we pay for childare all summer we don't do a lot, but I like for the kids to do 1 or 2 during the summer to break it up a little for everyone. 

4. This morning, the hubs and I are going to Vancouver for a kids free weekend. Thanks G&G and aunty kolby! We have a wedding and decided to go a bit early and enjoy some alone time. not exactly sure what we will do but it will be nice to spend some time together. 

5. Grady told me his first joke the other day. Where does the penguin keep his money? In a snow bank.

 Have a good weekend!

Monday, February 23, 2015

Sucess

This weekend we had our hockey social. I stressed about it all week.  We have had an unseasonable warm winter.  When I booked this social in January for 16 5 and 6 year olds, we planned to have ice.  The ice has come and gone all winter.  Last week was warm, above zero warm all week.  Friday we got a bit of snow and the temperature started to drop with an expected cold day on Saturday,  I got a little atomistic.  I drove past the rink on the way home from work on Friday and all i saw was a big puddle with snow patches.  I was deflated, but the show must go on.

We arrived at the rink to a totally empty room.  It is a beautiful community center that looks like a log cabin form the inside.  It has 2 bathrooms, a kitchen and a 'skating room' with a private entrance to the rink.  It was the perfect locale for a skating party.

While I am the organization of the party, James brings the muscles.  He set all the tables and chairs up on his own while the kids and I unpacked the food and crafts areas.

The before picture
We had a craft area full with plain white pages, many printed hockey pictures and dinosaur stickers.


We had a bead table where the kids could make a necklace or bracelet.  Seriously this table was a hit and everyone wore a necklace around for the rest of the night.  Who knew a bunch of boys would love beading!


Last but not least, WE HAD ICE!!!


When we pulled up at the rink at 3pm on Saturday, I nearly lost my mind when I saw the ice full of people skating.  From a pond on Friday to a full fledged rink 24 hours later.

Cooper had a blast skating with all the older boys.  And according to him he even scored a goal.


Grady was in his element and loved every second.


The kids stayed out until the sun started to set and it started getting dark and colder.  Remember it had to be cold to create that ice overnight!




After we had pizza, we busted out our homemade game of pin the puck on the net.  And let me tell you the kids LOVED it.  Some of them went absolutely cray for it.  This is cooper with the 'blind fold' which is actually a neck warmer over his face.  Trust me there was no peaking.


Here is Grady's excited face as he waited in line for his turn.  Some of the kids were actually squealing with delight!


The kids got quite close to the person with with the puck and even shouted out directions.


They hovered around like this after each persons turn.


I was so happy it went so well.  After all my worrying all week I was so relieved to see the kids having fun.  The only thing that could have improved the party was wine.  And more moms.  It was mostly Dads with the kids which was disappointing but I still had fun just the same visiting with the few moms that were there.  Still surprises me how so many women don't show up for hardly any of the games.....

This social was a lot of work.  Organizing, set up, clean up, games, crafts.... but so rewarding.  Before bed last night I asked Grady what he was going to write about in his weekend journal at school and he said he was going to write about the hockey social.  It made my heart happy. After all, we all take on the extra work and volunteer for the benefit of our kids.

So I am calling this social a success!  

I am also really happy it is over.

Check out that smile.  There is all the reward I need.

Friday, February 20, 2015

The Oscars

When I saw the list of blog topics for the the first few months of the year, this one was the most troublesome... I don't watch the Oscars.  Never really have.  Except when I lived with Sara and she insisted we watch every award show.

I did a quick google of the Oscars to educate myself before doing this post.  Out of all the best picture nominees I haven't seen any of them.  James and I started The Grand Budapest Hotel together and I lasted about 5 minutes before I decided I didn't like it.  It was weird. I will admit that I would like to see American Sniper bur haven't seen it yet.

Why don't they have a category for best romantic comedy, of even best comedy?  Truthfully, I never enjoy the movies on the Best Picture list.  They just aren't my type of movie.  For the most part I enjoy movies that are easy to watch, usually funny, with some romance, and not to difficult to follow.  I've been known to ask a lot of questions.  I can't be the only one.

If I were being totally honest, I would tell you that my most anticipated movie this year is 50 Shades of Grey. Shhhhh, don't tell anyone!

So instead I leave you with a photo of myself at a wedding we attended on NYE.  It was great Gatsby themed so I added a facinator, aka a headband with a flower. One time my MIL emailed me to see if she could borrow my facinator and I emailed back saying sure, but I don't know what that is.  Ha!!


I was really grumpy about the wedding but in the end I had a really good time.

If you are an Oscar fan, I hope you enjoy the show.  I will just hear who won the next day on the radio :)



                               

Tuesday, February 17, 2015

Hockey Social

In preparation for next weeks hockey social my mind has been spinning looking for indoor activities.  You see, we rented this great little community center with a big skating path and rink, perfect for a hockey team of 5 and 6 year olds with the expectation of skating.  With the mild temperatures we have been having, I am not sure we will actually be able to skate.

We have the community center booked so now I have to improvise on what we can do other than skate.  I figure we could play a little field hockey or maybe even soccer if the ground is wet... but I wanted to be prepared to have 16 kids running around inside.

Cooper was at a party recently and they pin the light saber on the Yoda and the kids went crazy for it.  I thought I could convert it into a hockey game.  I was originally going to do pin the stick on the hockey player, but who was going to draw the hockey player, certainly not me!

Then I had the great idea of shooting a puck at a target.   Here is Grady drawing the cross sticks as the target.


When we were done creating it, we decided to pin it on the wall and try it.  I must say it was a hit.  James and I even gave it a whirl and came no where near the target.


For a whopping $5 we made the game and bought 2 prizes. I hope the kids like it.

This was one of my many jobs of being team manager of Grady's hockey team.  Planning the social.  I had one parent volunteer to help me I've sent her 2 emails and I haven't heard back from her.  At this point I am gearing up to do it all on my own.  I don't understand why people don't want to be more involved in their kids activities.  If we all split the tasks to be done it would be a little work for everyone instead of a lot of work for one person.  Or worse yet, why does someone volunteer if they don't have the intention to follow through?  I'll never understand.

So while I would normally be wishing for warmer weather, this week I am hoping for snow and below 0 temperatures to make some ice!

Friday, February 13, 2015

Five on Friday


1.  Valentine's Day is tomorrow.  While we don't really celebrate Valentine's per se, James and I went out for dinner last night.  We don't do cards, gifts, or flowers, but we do take the opportunity to go our for dinner just the 2 of us.  It is never on the actual day and I always wear red.


2.  James and I both have the day off today so we will be heading to a spin/strength/core class.  It is 40 minutes spin and 20 minutes core. I just love how James has embraced spin class.  We get extra time together and a workout. Perfect mix if you ask me!

3.  My kids are early risers.  Always have been.  For a while they were sleeping until 7ish but now we are back to 6 or 630.  I don't get it.  The kids are so active and seem to need less sleep than me.  

4.  Spongebob the movie opened last weekend and apparently did really good at the box office.  All 3 of the boys in my house want to see it but I have zero interest.   The kids were shocked I didn't like sponge bob!  Ha!

5. I bought these booties at old navy for $30 this week.  I got them in the mail yesterday and they are super cute.  Sometimes you get some great deals reading fashion blogs!



Have a great weekend!!

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Another Weekend at the Rink

Like most of our weekend this winter, we spent a lot of time at the rink.  While I thought I would hate it, I have actually grown to love it.  I love the smiles on their face when they are on the ice and thier sweaty little heads when they are done.  I love their passion for sport and their team mates.

Grady played a game this weekend and one of my friends from university had a son on the other team so we spent a good portion of the game catching up.

I always remember from my brother's days in hockey that being a hockey family could be a very social experience and that is what I expected for our team.  It's been a slow start but as the end of the season draws nearer it has gotten better.

I have certain people that I sit with at the games and enjoy catching up with each week.  I've found that most of the mom's don't come to hockey often.  There are some moms I have never seen.  I understand that people have kids to shuffle around, but I am at way more than 50% of the games and James and I alternate who takes which kid each week.  I've been really surprised about the lack of parent support and involvement in the team overall.

On to Cooper...  Cooper is in a development program for 4 and 5 year olds that is mostly drills based.  There is a huge focus on skating and just holding a stick.  This past weekend he finally got the chance to play his first game.  Unlike when Grady did this program and they did an actual game, they had all the kids on the ice with multiple pucks.  It was a little chaotic but this allowed the kids more playing time and Cooper didn't mind at all.  I think this video is priceless and totally Cooper.

The password is 'miss' and you'll see why when you watch the video!

Cooper has the white jersey and the red pinney on.  He has the puck most of the time.  Seriously they all look the same out there!


Cooper from Christy R on Vimeo. It is so typical Cooper, even in soccer, that he get the puck, takes time to set it up and then someone either takes it or he misses it.  Priceless!

It is interesting how many people comment on how tiny they are when they walk by leaving one of the other rinks.  I will be one of the parents saying that in 15 years I am sure.  I think they look so big in all the hockey gear!

So winter continues and so does hockey.  I'm glad it is over in March and we move on to soccer, wall climbing, and swimming.  That is assuming that it is a warm spring, otherwise outdoor soccer can be a deep freeze to.  Bring it on, we are Canadian after all!

Monday, February 9, 2015

Weekend Funnies

Act 1

Setting the scene:  On our way to Grady's hockey game.

Grady:  i hate playing defence.  You don't ever get to score.

Me:  What do you like to play?

Grady:  i like to play forward.  Last time I played wiener.

Me:  Wiener?

Grady:  Yeah, I played left Wiener.

Mom:  Oh!  Winger.  You played left Winger.

I tried not to laugh to hard to embarrass him, but OMG that was priceless.

Act 2

Setting the scene:  I arrive at art class to pick up Cooper.

Cooper:  Want to see what I made today?

Me:  Sure

Cooper brings me to the back room where there are all sorts of clay figurines.  I see some birds, some cats, dogs.

Me:  Which one is yours Cooper?

He points to the only black one.

Cooper:  Its a Zombie.

And at that moment it became very obvious that he was the only boy in the class that day.  With that being said, the teacher said she like Cooper's the best.

Never a dull moment with these two!

Friday, February 6, 2015

Killing them with Kindness

I'm just going to start by saying I failed this task miserably.  I had good intentions but failed miserable.  Truthfully it pushed me out of my comfort zone.  My plan was to buy coffee for the person behind me in the drive through at Second Cup.  I tried twice and there was no one behind me.

Ironically, less than 2 weeks ago I was in line at Starbucks when I felt the worker and the man ahead of me staring.  I looked up and the woman asked me what I wanted to drink.  I blankly stared at her and then back to him and it turned out that he wanted to buy my coffee.  I was taken a back.  Someone has only bought me a coffee one other time and it was through drive through and I promptly bought the coffee for the car behind me.  It was such a nice friendly and easy thing to do.  Truthfully it made my morning and put a smile on my face.  So easy to make someone feel good.

For the record, I would have passed this gesture along, but again, no one was behind me.  The universe was working against me.

While I didn't do something deliberate for this post, my family and I have been doing random kind things.

Just the other week, the kids and I made a trip to the Children's Hospital to drop of a donation collected at Cooper's birthday party.   In November.  We decided our kids don't need anything so in lieu of gifts we asked people to give donations.  Don't feel bad for them, we still bought them gifts and so did all their family, we just did this for his friend party.  Surprisingly, the kids have taken it well.  I get asked that a lot.

When we arrived Cooper got to write his name on a heart and place it on the wall.


Then do a cheque presentation and take a picture.  The wall behind him is full of all the stars with names of other children that have donated money as well.  It is a great program.


Another kind thing I am doing this month is making a meal for a friend that is having some health issues.  She has a young family just like me and I wanted to help her out despite knowing her that well.  Some of her friends organized a meal train where you can sign up on line to bring her and her family a meal.  I am so happy to be able to help out and make her life a little bit easier.

Finally, I randomly buy lattes for my coworkers when I think they are having a bad day or if they have helped me out and done a great job.  In the month of December it was happening almost weekly while we worked to close our deal.

I decided that the things we have been doing in ordinary life are just as, or more important, than the things that we preplan.  Holding the door open for someone, letting someone go in front of you at the grocery store because they only have a few items, sending a note in snail mail to a friend.... these are the small thoughtful things that really make a big difference.

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Groundhog Day

Groundhog day was this week and Grady told me that the groundhog saw his shadow and we are stuck with winter for another 6 weeks.  I'm not terribly surprised as we seem to be in a deep freeze this week!

I was also alerted to the fact that it was groundhog day as there was  a blog series about Groundhog Day the movie.  You know, the one with Bill Murray where he relives the same day over and over. I know you've seen it.  The blog was challenging people to think about what day they would want to relive over and over.  Just like the movie.

I initially thought of the obvious.  Our wedding day.


I waited for the proposal for what seemed like forever.  Then I only had to wait 5 months for our wedding day.  And it did not disappoint.   Mother nature cursed blessed us with a very rainy day but other than that it was just as I'd hoped.  But we didn't have the kids, so although I loved that day I wouldn't choose to repeat that one over and over.

Next up, the day that Grady was born.  

Minutes after his birth, my first moments as a parent
This may top my favorite day ever.  The day I became a mom.  I wanted to be a mom since I was a little girl and finally that dream was coming true.  Although when I was little, my babies were always girls.  Little did I know....  But let's be honest, not really excited about repeating labor over and over.

Cooper's birthday was pretty special to.


This time we knew what to expect and were more prepared.  Finally we were a family of 4. Our family was complete.

Again, can't say I want to give birth every day.

Then I decided the best choice would be to repeat just an ordinary day.  Probably a vacation day in Kelowna or Hawaii.

It would have perfect weather, kids that slept in and watched TV quietly until James and I got up.  We'd have lattes with breakfast and dessert after dinner.

We'd do something together as a family and have lots of fun. No meltdowns or tantrums.  The kids would go to bed easily and James and I would watch a chick flick with a glass of wine... or two!

Who am I kidding, this is a fantasy day, not a day that I've actually had.  While many days have had components of this perfect day, we have yet to have the 'perfect' day.  Maybe we will never will.  And that is Ok. While we do have terrible days where that never seem to end.  Days where I want to lock myself in my room and cry.  We have many more normal days where there is the odd tantrum, lots of hugs, lots of playing, and lots of love.  I could relive those days over and over.  







Monday, February 2, 2015

Animal in the School

Since Christmas, Grady has brought up practicing lock downs at school, not once, but twice.  It certainly is a sign of the times as we most definitely did not have those while I was growing up.  We did fire drills and that was about it.  With many sad things happening in our schools these days, I guess it is good that they practice what they should do in the event something like that should happen.  But honestly, I hate to even think about the fact that it could happen.  I refuse to let me my mind even go there.

What I did want to share was how Grady talked about it and what he has been taught about lock downs in school as I for one was curious how you explain to a group of 6 year olds what you are 'practicing'.

Setting the scene:  It is 7am and Grady is explaining to Cooper what a lock down is since Cooper didn't know.  He had dreamed about it the night before and was telling me about it.

Grady:  A lock down is when an animal gets in the school.

Pause

Grady:  Like a snake or a coyote.  Wait, we don't have coyotes here.

Me:  Actually, yes we do have Coyotes.

Grady:  Oh.

Me:  So what happens next?

Grady: We pretend we aren't there.

Me:  How?

Grady:  We pretend to sleep.

This broke my heart.  First, I didn't like that he was dreaming about it.  I figure they must have practiced one this month and it is fresh in his mind.  The fact that he dreamed about it must mean that it is still on his mind.

The mental image of all these grade one students laying on the floor pretending to sleep is just too much.  I couldn't stop thinking of the Sandy Hook shootings just over 2 years ago.  Something that my son's class practiced was reality for a similar aged group of kids.

As I wrote this post I found myself going back to read about the shootings and all the emotions I felt that day resurfaced.  What kind of world do we live in where someone could harm a group of 6 year olds?  I personally don't understand it. I don't understand why we have to do lock downs in the schools with our 6 year olds.  I wish we were raising our children in an environment where this type of training wasn't required.

When all is said and done, I would rather that the teachers and staff of the school practice and are prepared in the hopefully very unlikely event that they have to put these practices into use for real.  So while I hate the idea that these lock downs have to be done, I support that our teachers are putting constantly working towards protecting our kids.

For information purposes, here is the information I found on the Calgary Police service webpage:
School lockdowns
A school lock down is a procedure which is initiated when school officials believe that there is a credible threat to student and staff safety. Lockdowns are used to protect students from school shooters, bomb threats, and other forms of violence, but they can also be used when police are engaged in an operation nearby, or when a national disaster has been declared.
When a lock down is ordered, people are told to stay inside their classrooms and lock the doors to prevent people from entering. Windows mist be ​ shut, locked and covered with blinds to obscure visibility. People are encouraged to stay away from doors and windows. The goal of a school lock down is to keep students and staff safe. It is important to comply with the lock down for safety reasons.
 The SRO assigned to the school will arrange, on average, two lockdowns per year. The first will be an "announced lockdown." All staff will be prepared for a lockdown as they have been advised a drill will be occurring. When the announcement is made "lockdown, lockdown, lockdown", students and staff will follow protocol by locking all doors, staying in their classrooms away from the door, and keeping quiet until a police officer opens the door with a key advising the lockdown is over. 
The second lockdown will be unannounced, where all the same protocol is followed, with the exception of notifying the staff. The only staff aware would be the administration as they would be announcing lockdown over the intercom.